“Spare the rod, spoil the child.” –The Bible. Discipline is a vital requirement when it comes to raising children. If they are not properly disciplined, they are not prepared for life. Some believe that spanking does more harm than good, but there is a big difference between healthy discipline and abuse. The lack of discipline in America has led to the decline of society due to a misunderstanding of the correct way to discipline children.I. There has been a misconception about how to properly discipline children due to secular views and flawed studies. Many of these so-called “studies” have led “many experts to believe that corporal punishment is likely to lead to increased resistance or aggressive behavior on the part of the child” (“Corporal Punishment.” World Book Advanced). One study in particular “suggests that children who experienced violent spanking (with objects or as frequently as once a week or more with one hand) had significantly higher levels of mother-reported externalizing behavior at ages 6, 7. and 8 years compared to children. who experienced no spanking or mild spanking at those ages, even controlling for prior externalizing behaviors and other possible confounding factors. (Lansford). However, aggressive behavior should be expected if a parent hits their child out of anger rather than a desire to improve him or her for the future. There are many other "studies" that claim to show that spanking increases negative behavior, but they lump them all together and say that all spanking in any form, regardless of severity, is the same and creates worse children. “Any form of punishment, physical or otherwise, can have negative consequences if it is abused.” (Green) If parents do not physically discipline their children, they will be ... middle of paper ......tortured by selfish, ignorant and arrogant people. Whereas, a proper spanking makes the child look at what he has done and see that it not only affects him but also others around him, that is why it is not wise to do whatever he has done.B. People wonder why their children act the way they do, but it's because their "technique" is faulty. Conclusion The misconception about spanking has led to a lack of discipline in America causing a decline in society. The Bible and many other doctors and researchers are clear about the proper way to discipline children. When proper discipline is implemented, children are prepared for life. Spanking, like anything else, is only effective if done correctly. As long as it comes from a heart full of love, it will bear good fruit. Parents, try spanking your child the next time he needs it; not hastily or angry, but out of love.