So where is the balance? Studies show that using the authoritative parenting style is more effective. “Authoritative parenting is more effective in transmitting values ​​in individualistic societies because, in these contexts, it is important for an individual to assert himself and actively pursue his own desires and needs” (Journal of Intercultural Psychology 203). The authoritative parent uses a combination of love and limits to help their children develop independence. When children grow up with authoritative parents, they learn to properly use their social skills such as arguments and conversations, allowing them to listen and convey their thoughts effectively. These children also show greater emotional control and maturity. Furthermore, these children develop greater self-esteem and have more self-confidence thanks to the nurturing and encouraging environment in which they live. The firm, but loving and authoritative parenting style produces competent and creative children, because they are encouraged to follow what interests them most. “The child may argue and test boundaries, but is fundamentally satisfied with his relationship with his parents and does not rebel” (Baumrind 795). Balance is the key, so when you use the authoritative parenting style your children are less likely to disobey the orders of their authority and the relationship between the parents