Richard, my brother, is his legitimate son. His first child, so obviously he would get the most attention. I'm not condoning what he did, but it makes sense. The fact that my father treated me that way set me back several years academically and personally. I have always been smarter and just as talented as my brother. If I had received the same treatment as Richard I would have been at the same level as my more talented peers. I would have sky-high confidence and probably be in a different place than where I am now. However, one thing I can say about my dad is that he is the most loving, kind, and supportive man I have in my life. Today she is my biggest cheerleader and would do anything for me. I love my dad and he loves me more than I ever knew. It is pushing me towards my dreams to make them come true. I regret chasing my dreams from the beginning, but it sure feels good to have my dad on my side now. I have learned to never again allow someone else's ideals or expectations to guide my future. Thank you