I am usually a very open and understanding person with the ability to trust people based on their loyalty and commitment to long-term relationships. This is a really positive aspect of my personality, which gives me more opportunities and social options in the voice of friends and romantic relationships. obviously this part of the sociability of my personality, which can also get me into trouble, sometimes, with people I don't want in my life. Some of the bad choices I made in high school involved having too much compassion for the person who was behaving dysfunctionally. For example, I often talked to people who had serious problems (drug addiction, arrests, etc.) because I felt that I could help them solve these problems. In many cases, these individuals often “turned on me” because they had issues with anger, mistrust, and resentment toward others. In college, I'm learning to maintain compassion for those who suffer from dysfunctional lifestyles, but I'm also realizing that I don't have to "help" them out of their current situation. In the future, this will be a good way to prevent annoying people (who don't want to help themselves) from interfering with my happiness. I think this will help me become a more discerning person, which will help me make better choices in the future in terms of family, career and social life. Today I am learning to change the “bad behavior” of hanging out with dysfunctional people who are not willing to help themselves as part of my college personality sociability
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